Stay Cool, it's just dog training
One of many things in Dog training is to use the correct tone depending on your dog’s demeanor and attitude. For me and Mailee, some dogs are softer with me and a lot pushier with Mailee. For example, I Could be working a dog on level 4 on the remote, while they will work on a 15 with Mailee. It seems like a huge jump but we have to remember that dogs can feel our energy and their attitude change depending on the handler. Dog training is an art. You have to know when to appropriately ‘mark’ behaviors and timing can be key in certain situations. Dogs are so smart, they can tie things together.
Always remember to stay neutral. When you work with a dog you are not angry, frustrated or sad, you just state a fact.